Recently while in the religion section of Barnes and Noble, I found two books in that struck me indicative of America at this juncture.
One was entitled Why the Christian Right Is Wrong and the other was God's Own Party: The Making of the Christian Right.
I felt like both covers were screaming at me. Both books not only expressing their views, but expressing their views at the cost of the other. And these weren’t the only ones—there were so many more!
We buy books like this from whatever camp we find ourselves in because it’s so much easier (and fun) to surround ourselves with people who think exactly as we do, right?
And this is where the wars of words begin:
Red State vs. Blue State.
Fox vs. MSNBC
Pro Life vs. Planned Parenthood
And us, religious types are the WORST. We love a good game of us vs. them.
The "them" side isn’t as enlightened, or as smart or as representative of the true faith like we are. We stake the claim of the divide with statements like this-
You believe gay marriage is ok. But we believe marriage is between a man and a woman.
You believe the Bible is without errors. But we believe it is full of them.
You believe all religious paths lead to God. But we believe in Jesus is the only way to God. (The list could go on and on)
And we de-friend both in real life (and on Facebook) once we see the side people fall on.
Such happened to me recently and it really surprised me.
I met a new colleague. Though we both profess the Christian faith, we’re a unlikely match. But now I call him my friend.
He likes to go on mission trips for the sake of evangelism. I don’t feel this is the best use of my resources.
He likes telling me about his prayers using specific scriptures. I am not one to be showy about how I pray for people.
He chooses to live in part of the country where Christian churches are the norm. I prefer to be surrounded by diversity.
But as I’ve gotten to know this colleague, I’ve seen his heart. I've watched him give and give of his resources to others. I’ve received comfort from his beautiful prayers for me. I’ve found nuggets of common ground in our theological conversations.
But, this is what I know:
We're both are children of the same heavenly Parent.
We're both bearers of divine light (even if I still think my choices are the best ones for me).
And he’s challenging me to see God beyond the walls of my own bias.
This is why the us vs. them wars never work and can’t be our norm practice if we want to live in peaceful corners of plant earth. God is always in the business of surprises. 
This does not mean that there isn't a time and place for speaking truth to power and movements for justice but . .
Our best energy, my friends can’t be used up in fortifying ourselves for battle with them.
We’ve got more important work to do! Feeding the hungry, seeing the unseen, uplifting the lonely. Work we can do together.
